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  • November27th

    The Ugly Truth

    Posted in: Dating Do's & Don'ts

    So I finally watched The Ugly Truth last night. It was actually really cute, I liked the message it sent. So many times we read about these crazy games we’re supposed to play when dating, and yes even I have posted some! To be honest sometimes I do play games, not intentionally, but to keep the situation at the distance I want it at. However, I think when you meet the right person those games don’t even exist on either person’s end because you just like the other person so much you don’t even think about games, all you think about is when you’re hanging out next.

    When I first started watching the movie Katherine Heigl was totally acting the way I would. Telling the Ugly Truth guy he’s an ugly gross man wh*re, freaking out, whining, stressing out, over thinking, over talking, it was great. As soon as he came into the picture he had her entirely change her personality into this dream girl, no complaining, no stress, no criticizing, always be hot, flirt to keep him interested, basically sit still and look pretty. What guy wouldn’t like that? I got super stressed out because all I could think about is how much I whine and complain if I have a bad day, how was I ever going to stop? And flirting? Ahhhh my idea of flirting is 7th grade status, ;) is about is far as I go. I couldn’t even imagine just sitting quiet, pretending to be someone I am not, just to get a date.

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  • October14th

    Lazy Men= Gross

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Do's & Dont's

    Guys if you expect a girl to want to hangout with you, it is gonna take more than a lame text to lure her in, for me at least. F for effort! Easy is notttt my middle name, take it or leave it ;) I realized lately I give priority to people who pretty much aren’t even asking for it. After reading this post written by a MAN, (see below) it made me realize I need to step my game up. I am officially over lazy guys.

    In my own head (I may be delusional of course, however, I don’t think that is the case?) I am a catch. I have a good job, I am creative, like to write, smart enough, have dreams, goals and morals, don’t do drugs or party too hard, am not a h*e, I am supppper FUN, kinda cute ;) , athletic, active, spontaneous, down to snowboard, go to theme parks, love the gym, bbq’s, playing with sea creatures at low tide, catching bugs, riding horses, drawing, crafting, reading, painting, etc etc etc…unless you are asking me to sky dive, I am pretty much down to do anything. Sorry about the bragging list oopsie ;) Long story short, I think I am a pretty good deal ;) Why would I ever chase some lazy guy? Especially when there are awesome guys out there willing to give me everything I could ever want and more? I am all for equal work, but if you initially aren’t bringing anything to the table why would I!?

    Besides, I am pretty traditional when it comes to dating. I still think men should take the first steps to arrange plans. And I still think men should play their role and I will respond with mine. I don’t care what year it is, this is how I date and will continue to date. Men that think women should do all the work are simply lazy, immature and clueless. Here is what prompted this post, written like I said by a man:

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  • October12th

    It’s Official, Kim & Reggie Are Back ON!

    Posted in: Hot Topics

    Yup, back together. Wednesday night at the grand opening of Famous Cupcakes in LA, Kim tells E! that she is in fact back together with Reggie Bush. She confirmed, “We are back together, being apart really shows you everything you miss about someone.” When asked to elaborate, she said, ” I really choose to be a little bit more private this go around.”

    I don’t know how I feel about this… not like that matters, but I can’t wait to see if this time goes a bit better!

    They definitely do look fab together tho thats for sure :) kim-kardashian-reggie-bush-back

  • September28th

    Sappy Sunday- I ♥ Me

    Posted in: Sappy Sunday Quotes, Your Best Life!

    It really is true, in life, you get what you give, but sometimes I think people fail to realize their own worth. More and more people I see are settling for jobs, boyfriends/girlfriends, friends etc… below their worth. But until you recognize what you deserve from life you probably won’t get much more… today’s Sappy Sunday quote:

    “Life gives you exactly what you tell it you’re worth.”

    Simple as that. Unless you are asking for more, working for more, wanting more, you’ll probably end up with less. Most people get too comfortable/lazy with what they have currently and accept it out of fear of failure or rejection. Think about the things in your life, the people, that boyfriend, that job… if you know you’re settling, take a risk, ask for more, show people your worth and how bad you want it and most likely you will receive it, or be one step closer to it at least :)

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  • August29th

    Dating @ This Age is Ridiculous!

    Posted in: Boysss, Family & Friends, Rants

    So I just spent the night hanging with a few friends, we ended up watching “He’s Just Not That Into You” for the 23rd time, and of course after watching it we got all fired up about how stupid guys and girls can be in dating. We talked about how ridiculous Brad Cooper is for cheating on his wife, how ridiculous Scarlett Johansson is for being the other woman and hiding in the closet, etc etc…

    We then started talking about how obvious it is that 80% of the guys we talk to are talking to at leastttt 5 other girls for sure. It is one thing if you’re on top of your player game and I never notice, but texting me once every 2 weeks is pretty obvious that I am not at the top of your priority list. Asking me to hang out then disappearing when I finally reply? Hahaha why bother? I seriously couldn’t care less if I see, or talk to, the majority of guys who text me. I know you’re insincere, so howww about you just stop texting me now. Why do girls put up with immature guys and their half ass efforts? If he isnt calling you, he doesn’t want to! So deleteeeeee and move on.

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  • August26th

    Girls!!!! GET A GRIP!

    Posted in: Dating Do's & Don'ts, Do's & Dont's

    Ahhhhhhh so someone emailed me a hilariousssss story about this chick that won’t leave him alone. He thought it would be an amusing story for my site and it definitely is. So girls, I have one question, are you a crazy chick?

    So this is his email to me:

    You see, I’ve got this crazy chick that just wont leave me alone. For years now!! We went out ONCE about 8 years ago. She calls my company phone at all hours of the nite and fills my answering machine with rambling messages about her undying love for me, and how she’s really not crazy. Not to mention all the e-mails that come regularly. I’m well past the point of being annoyed, and now I just find it humorous and pathetic. Poor girl. So below you will find her latest message to me tonight. I cut and paste it for your scrutiny and reading humor/pleasure.

    Crazy Chicks Email:

    “Once again I feel stupid…You love to make me feel like a retard….Why do you love to hate me? Im not fat anymore hahah I found walking to be my best friend..I also have lost interest in the L.A guy eeck..You should call me i need some entertainment..I was just kiddin about the connection thing I think i just can’t stand how you ignore me.. Why do you hate me?”

    Ok so crazy chick… I have a few questions. If you feel stupid, do you also realize that you actually are? AHhahaskdjasd your email is soooo crazy! Who asks why a guy loves to hate her? Who admits she was fat and discovered the art of walking kasjdlasjkdsad, then updates the guy on some LA guy he clearly cares nothing about, then tries to play hard to get by saying call me I need entertainment, then she says she’s kidding, then she admits she’s mad he ignores her. Then RE asks why he hates her!?

    Do girls like this exist everywhere? If so I need to plan an intervention on creepy, crazy chicks asap!!! Hmm I wonder if he leads her on at all? (I asked he says no, not even friends on ANY of the social sites) Regardless I would NEVER EVER write that to a GUY! I won’t even re text a guy.

    PEOPLE OF THE WORLD, there ARE RULES: One text, one call, one voicemail, one email, one facebook comment… that’s IT! If someone is interested they will reply. If they don’t reply, erase them from your life foreverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! It is quite simple. And for all you wondering well, what if they didn’t get my text? They did. And well, if he likes you, he will contact you sooner or later anyway. Sure there are freak occasions where texts don’t go through but it is quite rare. No double contacting! And definitely NO psycho long weird emails!

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  • August20th

    Fine Line Between Dating & Hating

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts

    How do you know when you realllly care about someone? You get mad. I was talking to my friend Matt about how him and his girlfriend argue so much that it’s making him want to break up.  I told him he was lucky to have someone in his life that actually got under his skin and called him out on his BS. To me a little fighting is much better than no fighting because if something is that easy something huge is missing.

    Most people I talk to can’t make me mad. Why? Because I don’t care. I personally would never date someone that never challenged me and that never got upset with something I did. At least I know the passion and emotion exists.

    I’ve been in relationships before where there was tons of fighting. In my head? …In my head, I was thinking hey I want to mention things that bother me, hoping he wants to fix it and move on. I’ve also dated plenty of guys who do everything wrong, yet I stay silent why? Because I don’t really care if it ever gets fixed.

    The line between dating and hating is weird. Every serious dating/married couple I know fights. Whether it is a little fight or a huge ignore each other for 2 days fight, realistically it happens. Most couples are in a bubble together, a bubble where someones got to be right in every fight. Who that is, is constantly up for debate of course.

    I’ve hated a few guys but I guess it is simply because I cared. Next time you’re fighting with someone, realize it’s probably because you both care a lotttt. Try to understand where the other person is coming from, fix it and move on. But of course, sometimes one person kind of refuses to grow up and change so the fights get to be too much… in that case, maybe you don’t fix it and instead just move on :)

    Why do you think couples fight so much? Where do you draw the line?

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  • July16th

    STOP Chasing Your Tail

    Posted in: Rants, Your Best Life!

    I would say life in my early 20′s was probably the craziest years I have had so far. Actually, every year before this year was pretty intense. You go through all these crazy relationships/friendships, cry, yell, wonder what is going on non stop, hate your jobs, move home and wanna kill yourself, question peoples intentions etc… I finally reached a point where I was faced with two decisions…1. Break my own crazy circle and STOP involving myself with the things that were slowing me down or 2. Keep hoping for change and just stick around waiting.

    If you are in a situation where you are sticking around and hoping for the best, you most likely are wasting your life away. Unless you are in a marriage you should probably suck it up and move on. I also realized that nothing comes without constant work and determination. If you want something, start taking baby steps towards getting it. A lot of my girl friends complain about the lack of men they date, well, where are you looking? If you are at Typhoon every Wednesday night accepting Lemon Drop shots from random, sweaty, ex frat guys, then chances are you’re always going to leave disappointed. 98% of the men in dirty bars like that want one thing, and it’s not a relationship. Why are you still going there?

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