Guys if you expect a girl to want to hangout with you, it is gonna take more than a lame text to lure her in, for me at least. F for effort! Easy is notttt my middle name, take it or leave it I realized lately I give priority to people who pretty much aren’t even asking for it. After reading this post written by a MAN, (see below) it made me realize I need to step my game up. I am officially over lazy guys.

In my own head (I may be delusional of course, however, I don’t think that is the case?) I am a catch. I have a good job, I am creative, like to write, smart enough, have dreams, goals and morals, don’t do drugs or party too hard, am not a h*e, I am supppper FUN, kinda cute , athletic, active, spontaneous, down to snowboard, go to theme parks, love the gym, bbq’s, playing with sea creatures at low tide, catching bugs, riding horses, drawing, crafting, reading, painting, etc etc etc…unless you are asking me to sky dive, I am pretty much down to do anything. Sorry about the bragging list oopsie Long story short, I think I am a pretty good deal Why would I ever chase some lazy guy? Especially when there are awesome guys out there willing to give me everything I could ever want and more? I am all for equal work, but if you initially aren’t bringing anything to the table why would I!?

Besides, I am pretty traditional when it comes to dating. I still think men should take the first steps to arrange plans. And I still think men should play their role and I will respond with mine. I don’t care what year it is, this is how I date and will continue to date. Men that think women should do all the work are simply lazy, immature and clueless. Here is what prompted this post, written like I said by a man:

“Men are basically lazy. If it were totally up to them to develop a relationship, the romance wouldn’t go very far. They expect the woman to do all the work including the courting, pleasing them, and the building of the relationship. Despite the fact they’re lazy, they still crave challenge and excitement. Men like something they can work at, like a…goal to try and accomplish. If they just flat out get what they want without having to work for it, they become “BORED”. They love the feeling of succeeding and winning. This is why we love sports…..LADIES! The very first and most important thing women should learn about romance is playing hard to get. You should make it a little hard for the man to get what he wants. This should start once romance begins. Men love excitement and to have something to work for. If everything is flat out given to them, they become bored and take it for granted…“this is real talk ladies”.

Getting worked up by a challenge gives them a feeling of manliness. Once you create this challenge, you are getting him excited over you. This is when the chase occurs…know the ball is in your court…Show him what you have to offer, but a little at a time. Be a bit mysterious and keep him wondering what you’re going to show him next. When you dress for a date, show just enough skin to get him aroused, but leaving the rest of you to his imagination. Try to be elusive, if he wants something let him talk you into it instead just offering it to him. If you do, his focus of pursuit will be on you. If you play hard to get, you’ll make him want you even more…TRUST ME….! ;- ))wink”

An own man admitting men are lazy? I couldn’t have said it any better myself! I am done letting guys think I will ever be the one initiating the work or doing it alone. If you don’t know how to treat a girl by now, I am definitely not the girl you should be contacting. I know what I want and won’t settle for less. Ladies demand more effort, don’t be so easy

“Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.”