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October6th

Do’s & Don’t of Hitting on a Girl

Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Do's & Dont's

I don’t walk around trying to reject men, but every time I have gone out lately, some idiot hits on me in the most ANNOYING way ever. I have gotten to the point where my tolerance level is at 0. If you have something dumb to say, I am going to tell you you’re dumb. Don’t be dumb and I wont tell you that you are

So two weeks ago, I was at Basic, a bar downtown, when I feel this hand fly across my body. Picture a guy grabbing on to his friend that happened to be behind me, however there was no friend in back of me….. he almost pushed me over! I ignored the first shove/grope and then another one came. Hello? Please don’t touch me. That is all I said. He said well I was trying to say hi to you. Well if you are trying to say hi to someone, maybe you should leave the shoving out of it. I told him I didn’t like it which lead to the infamous “You’re fat, you’re ugly, you’re not even that hot.” Why does any guy tell me “I am not even that hot”?

First of all, just because I don’t want to be groped doesn’t mean I think I am sooo hot. You are acting annoying so I get a get outta jail free card to be a snob back.

Second of all I never said I was hot. But you telling me I am “not that hot” means to you, I am pretty hot, just not hot enough to tell you you’re lame and have you be ok with it. I bet if Megan Fox called you annoying you’d tell her she was ugly and lame too.

Third of all, get a new approach. If you have to grab women to get them to notice you, that’s a problem.

So my solution for all this? Tips for hitting on a girl the correct way:

1. Pick one girl. 1, not 5. I can totally tell when a guy is girl hopping. He feeds you a half ass line, you don’t respond, so he hops on over to the next girl. You are only allowed to hit on a girl if you are being genuine. Everything else comes off fake. The only girl who will respond to this fake girl hopping approach is an insecure flooze who wants attention from anyone.

2. Make sure this girl is in your league. I am sorry but I am so over people not admitting there is a league. It doesn’t have to be all about looks but make sure you have something going on for yourself if you are going to approach a cute girl. If you see a hot chick in the bar, ask yourself why she would want to talk to you? If you have an answer great. If you don’t then please stay away. I am so over bros with no jobs, no car, no goals… hitting on me.

3. Be yourself. Everyone says it, but it is your only hope at really meeting someone worth your time. If you have to overly try with a girl, brag, lie, put on a show, eventually the truth will come out and the girl will leave. Ditch the pick up lines, the smooth talking, start with a simple “Hi are you having a good night? I wanted to come say hi and see if I could get you a drink” Every girl loves a gentleman who is confident, respectful, polite and NOT aggressive. Be into her but NOT too into her. I cant imagine saying no to any guy who approached me that way. Even if I physically wasn’t into him, I would probably appreciate his genuine attempt to say hi. Be a man, offer her a drink, pay attention to her body language and attention level. If you buy her a drink and you can sense her being uninterested, tell her you are going to go find your friends and bail. Don’t keep trying. All men should have backbones.

4. If she does reject you, take it like a champ. Don’t take it personal, realize hey, it just wasn’t meant to be. If she is a total bitch for no reason then be glad you’re not in her life.

Bottom line…Never grope a girl, push a girl, act like an idiot for attention, then get pissed off when she is not into your approach. Really over the lashing out men do after being denied.

Anyone have a great pick up line story?

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3 Comments

Comment by Mr, La Jolla — October 6, 2009 @ 11:46 pm

ATTENTION GUYS: From personal experience, if you want to pick up a girl at a club understand that SHE’S HEARD IT ALL BEFORE! Girls attract girls so get a good friend thing going with a group of hot chicks and the hot chicks will come to you. They want what other girls have… It’s a girl thing Keep an eye on her, let her see it. Offer to buy her a drink, but stay for just a minute and get back to your friends. Make her feel #1 when your talking with her, then let her see that she’s not the only one. They will give you the window of opportunity, see it, take advantage of it or dig your own grave. 95% of ALL men fuck this up! Don’t be that guy! Remember… Girls are attracted to something different, do what the other dudes aren’t doing and do what the girls are doing and do it better. If they see you having more fun, it’s like crack to them… They go where the fun is Oh, and last but not least… Don’t invite a girl back to your “Pad” Always have an after hours party planned! Seal the deal there! Hope this helps! Just thought I would give some advice! Ha ha!
Comment by ISH — October 6, 2009 @ 11:52 pm

my advice is…Stay single, focused on your goals and chicks will eventually catch on the bandwagon…In the mean time have fun…Real talk, when my confidence is up and im on my A-Game ISH full throttle dont care about chicks type feelings, they THROW themselves on me, i have to laugh at it because when im like “whoa-is-me”, and not feeling myself or not exuding my Regular confidence feeling down about whatever im like booboo the fool in the corner, so Its really about the individual NOT chasiing or NOT approaching. Youre right, the girls want what other girls have…SO i figure I will Stay Positive and focused…ON MY WORK and holla at the distractions later…lol
Comment by Tony — October 7, 2009 @ 12:21 am

I think you are right Amanda Jo. Men need to start being gentlemen again, but the problem is men who frequent bars think they can’t be in-order to be successful. A lot of men actually think women like being gropped, put down, and disrespected. In fact, there are men who go so-far-as to implement it into their “game.” In my opinion, that is an absurd prerequisite to get to know someone. Notably, too many loose and floozy women who are basically attention whores allow men to degrade and dispresect women. They have a low self-esteem and an even lower self- worth and are too weak to hold men accountable for their actions. Naturally, who do men have a tendency to run into when they are out looking for a woman in a bar? A slut, bitch, “chicken head” or a combination of all three. Hence, sleezy men in these environments can’t help but be obnoxious and unruly. It’s what works for them and helps them to be successful! My grandfather always told me,” you can never meet a good thing in a bad place” (Charles Robinson). Consequently, if one is looking to meet a bad thing in a bad place. He or she need not look any further than the nearest bar, brothle, downtown lounge, or pool hall etc. Therefore, if a woman wants to be treated like a lady. She should go to a place where she can meet a gentlemen. If she thinks she is going to stroll into a bar and be offered a drink by a gentlemen without having to endure some thoughtless com-on or get her ass rubbed, she is sadly mistaken. Those men are few and far between. It is due to the diminishing aspects of chivalry coupled with a serious lack of countenance among women that has sunken our society to this level. It is not only imperative for men to become gentlemen again, yet equally important for women to become ladies again and put the onus on men to be gentlemen.