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September19th

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Excuse Me, You Dropped Your… Um, Values?

Posted in: Celebrity Fashions & Gossip, Rants, Sappy Sunday Quotes, Your Best Life!

Every morning I lay in bed and read tweets, it takes me a second to wake up and get focused, and what better way to get focused than to read tweets Anyway, this morning while laying in my stuffy little room, I became so jealous reading all Kim Kardashian’s and her Mom’s Italy tweets, it really got me thinking… if you sacrifice everything you stand for, really, anything is possible. I mean who the heck is Kim Kardashian anyway? Why am I not in Italy with my Mom eating breakfast on some ocean front balcony as paparazzi follow me around town? So annoying! I’ve alwaysssss loved Kim, I really think style wise, she is one of the cutest around, but that doesn’t mean I love who she is, and what she stands for. A lot of people confuse my obsession with her.

Honestly Kim is famous for her sex tape with Ray J, it was 100% planned and her plan worked. I have friends who work in LA and have confirmed that Kim planned the entire thing. Isn’t it just crazy to think that if you just put all your values aside, and do something scandalous, you could be travelling the world living out all your dreams? I find myself questioning what the best way to live is. A super fun, honest, value filled life with amazing family and friends all while waiting for Italy trips to come due to your own real success, or the easy way… taking off your clothes and using your looks to make your way to the top. Bentley’s, beach vacations, boys throwing themselves at her, shopping sprees, I mean I want it alllllllll ahhhhh.

I realize that those things are all amazing, but I could never live with myself knowing at night I had it all because I was a sell out and made a sex tape. For me that’s not real.

It also reminded me of the time my best friend and I sat on the phone calling all the escorts her boyfriend was sleeping with. This one bitch was texting her the most awful things. “Your man bought my tits” When my friend told her she was an empty, pathetic person for selling her ass for a boob job, her reply was “I live a life of luxury and love it!!!!” Are you kidding me???? What is luxurious about selling your entire worth and existence for a Louis bag? You’re a c*m dumpster, I rather be homeless eating pizza out of the trash can than carrying a Louis Vuitton someone else’s man bought after paying to sleep with me. What is wrong with everyone!??! I mean you really think you’re classy because of that purse? You’re a paid whore, there is nothing lower class than that. Read More | Comments
September13th

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National DUMP Your Bf/Gf Who Won’t Own Up To You Day

Posted in: Rants, Your Best Life!

I am soooo over all these people’s Facebook’s who are in relationships that don’t list that they are. So many girls have “In a Relationship with Mark Stanley” on their pages, and then when I go click on Mark Stanley’s page to see if he’s an asshole or has it listed too, 9 times outta 10 the guys are assholes with hidden relationship status’.

How does anyone think this is ok? Girls… if your boyfriend refuses to add your pictures or change his status on Facebook he is either cheating, has cheated or is thinking about cheating. I was in a relationship a while ago and was a victim of an online predator myself. My boyfriend would tell me he couldn’t add our pics because he didn’t like the way he looked in them. Really? In all 892 pics you don’t like the way you look not even in ONE? Haha. I later found out he was a total online cheater, and it all made sense.

Other great excuses I’ve heard:

* Don’t tag me in pics because I don’t want people to see the ones of me drinking in the rest of the album. Um everyone knows you drink. You just don’t want your whores seeing you have a full on gf you go on vacations with!

* I don’t want a Facebook relationship. Um then DELETE your Facebook or don’t be in a relationship with me. Simple.

* I don’t want people to work with to see our pics. So people you work with can’t know you date me? Interesting!

* People are jealous of our life. Um no sorry, no one cares about our relationship that much.

* It’s so silly and small and not important. It is silly and not a big deal so uh, why aren’t you changing it?

Point of this post is NO matter what these stupid people say, there is no reason at all that your man or woman should not have “In a Relationship” listed on their profile or have you missing in their pics. If your man is keeping his profile to appear like he is single, there is a reason. Don’t even bother finding out just dump him. Don’t waste another day with some fool who isn’t sure about you. Bye.

You should never have to ask to be known about in a relationship, don’t deal with it. So ladies, gentleman, go home after work today and tell your stupid sneaky man or woman that you’re leaving to be with someone who wants to be with them back. It’s something so small but soooo big! If someone isn’t owning up to you that alone is enough for me to want out. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is the happiest person ever to be with them and who is proud to tell the world
September11th

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Trusting Your Gut

Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants

I know I man bash a lot, thanks for still reading But geez, most guys my age are such disasters it’s hard to understand. Writing helps me vent and put things into perspective. Also hearing all these stories teaches me what I would and wouldn’t ever settle for. I see how broken some of my friends get from these guys and I can’t help but become upset. Are you guys ready for my latest story? Because this one takes the cake. Point of this story is, damn it if you feel something is wrong, like really wrong with the person you are dating, something IS wrong. I promise you.

This entire story left me sick and if I could prevent it from happening to someone else, then it’s worth telling. One of my very best friends was dating a guy for almost a year. Things started off amazingggg. No red flags, super fun dates, just two people getting to know one another having a blast. Best friends. He would tell her she was the one, talk about marriage, kids, and a life together forever. They had a few small problems but overall were madly in love.

Slowly things started to change. Her boyfriend became more and more distant as time went on but always reassured her things were fine he just needed alone time. It left my friend wondering what was really going on. Was he cheating, was he doing weird things, or did he simply want alone time and nothing was wrong? She trusted nothing was seriously going on and put it aside, however her gut told her something major was going on. I always told her there is noooo way he’s cheating on you, if anything he’s probably just scared to commit. Boy was I wrong.

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August25th

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Why Are Men Such Online Predators?

Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants

I’ve huffed and puffed about this topic before, and to be honest, I don’t know why I even bother readdressing it, men will always be perverts, but what I don’t understand is why anyone thinks perverted messages are acceptable to send online?In the past week I have received a handful of sick, sick, scary, sick messages. Jaw dropping, vulgar, nasty messages. You guys need to get a grip on your Facebook advances.

So many guys use Facebook and other social sites to date off of, and fine do what you want, but sending gross/weird messages is absolutely pointless. I show my friends, we laugh and then I block you. Do you do it for shock value? Spaghetti theory? Some skank will bite? I don’t get the point.

With that being said, I figured I’d send you creeps some helpful info on how what NOT to do online.

1. Do not send me generic, bragging messages. So you’re rich, wanna spoil me, take me shopping, fly me all over etc. bla bla gag. You don’t think that’s weird? You just wanna fly a stranger all over the world? Just walk around the mall taking sugar baby shopping? Desperattttttte. And ya, I bet I’m the first girl you ever sent that message to right? Creepy, wait no terrifying and most def. not genuine. Plus no one likes a bragger. So you’re rich? Ya, rich and scary.

2. Fix your weirdo pics. Pictures from 1980 when you were hot, dirty bathroom pics, blurry pics, pictures cropped weird, those tiny pics people post bc they don’t know how to properly upload (Either you’re not smart or just way too old), pictures with piles of junk in the background, overly photoshopped pics, pics with a different random girl in every pic, we know your type “Hey can I get a pic for my friend back home, he’d never believe I’m here!!” yeah yeah. It’s 2010 and you’re lurking around the net, you need a camera and some normal friends to take pictures with. Successful lurkers have cameras, clean houses and friends they can take pics with, oh and know how to crop.

3. In a Relationship Status? Why are you messaging me? I always love going through my roommates friend requests, because they always have one friend in common with these weird guys, and it’s always me. Hehehehe woops. Anyway, the other day we clicked on one guy and I couldn’t even believe it, it said Married to Patty Smith or whatever. I got so mad! Poor Patty has no idea her sick husband is adding young floozies like me and my roommates on Facebook. That’s cheating. If you’re in a relationship or even worse, married, why are you adding younger, cute girls online? That’s called opening doors and you’re the last fool anyone wants to talk to. Appreciate Patty before I email her telling her what a creep you are. If Patty left you you’d fall apart and die so why don’t you get off Facebook and go give her a kiss. So over men not appreciating their women and using social sites to fantasize about other girls. My roommates and I will never like you. Get off the computer.

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August17th

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My Take on the Movie “Obsessed”

Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants

So yeah, I am wayyyy too late in seeing the movie Obsessed, I know, but I just saw it last night and it made me furious. Lisa is suchhhh a wh*re. Probably not a good movie for someone like me to watch, I despise desperate, evil women who prey on taken men and the entire idea of cheating makes my blood boil. I thought I’d share my thoughts on the movie because it is such a perfect example of why men need to be smarter when dealing with pretty women, ESPECIALLY if you’re already in a relationship.

Here are the key points that I think Beyonce’s husband did wrong:

1. He allowed Lisa’s flirting. Hello? As if you guys don’t know when a skank is flirting with you. Her psycho comments about the dirty martini, the oh he’s so handsome and looks just like you remark, the calling your wife by the wrong name, it’s all apparent she’s playing games and a psycho. Why did he even listen to her? Why did he even sit and have a drink with her? You just like the attention sooo much it’s worth the risk of losing your entire relationship?

He put himself in that bad situation, what did he expect after drinking with such an aggressive wh*re? Um yeah no. FLIRTING that way is NEVER allowed when you are dating someone, let alone married.

He should have A. Never gone to the spouse free holiday party alone, knowing Lisa’s wh*re ass would be there B. If he did, he shoulda kept his space and not spoken to her at all C. He could have brought his wife anyway knowing the circumstance D. He could have not consumed booze E. And if he f’d up all of that still, he should have ran home and told his wife ev-er-y-thing. Typical weak man, preferred playing around with her advances and only backing off once the line was crossed. No. Why even go there. You all know what you’re doing.

2. He lied. Beyonce asked him, how did the party go, anything weird happen? At that very moment he had 2 choices: 1. Forget how tipsy and tired he was and tell his wife what happened or 2. Take the easy way and pretend absolutley nothing happened. Again he chose wrong. He should have taken the 5 minutes to tell his wife the truth. Honesty is everythingggggg in a relationship and well, we all saw the consequence he faced after losing that. They had a 3 month break and lost all his wife’s trust.

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July27th

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Why Are Men Wearing Headbands?

Posted in: BOYS Fashion Picks, Boysss, Celebrity Fashions & Gossip, Do's & Dont's, Rants

So the other day I was eating at Firehouse in PB and in walks this bro with bleach blonde surfer hair, a droopy muscle tank, too tight short shorts (By the way are these in style again also?) and a turquoise woven Indian headband. Yes a headband, Pocahontas style. We all stared at this guy confused like, hmmm did he lose a bet? Is he serious? No… he has to be kidding, but nope, sure enough he sat down at the table with the rest of his bros, who keep in mind, said nothing about his headband, and ate a nice lunch. Is this some new trend men have taken a liking to? I mean I know some girls who wear the hippie headbands and it’s cute, but guys? No. Never.

Guys, leave the headband wearing to us girls…
July6th

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To All My Cheaters Out There…

Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Hot Topics, Rants

This blog post is lengthy, but I had to post it. It was written by a fellow female blogger and is a a greatttt post about cheating… why people do it, how to avoid it and exactly what it is. Cheating isn’t just kissing or sleeping with someone else, it entails soooo much, muchhhh more. Cheating is the scariest thing to me, because if someone doesn’t know exactly what it is, and how they avoid it, you just never know what someone can do to you… Read up and avoid!

Cheating rant begins:

“I fucking HATE it that cheating is so glamourized is TV shows and movies nowadays. Seriously, ALMOST EVERY SINGLE FUCKING SHOW INVOLVES CHEATING! Everybody is doing it, so why shouldn’t you? It’s portrayed as this thing that cannot be helped; is inevitable in all relationships. BUT THAT’S NOT TRUE!

Carrie Bradshaw is the character in Sex & the City that most women relate the most to. She believes in “The One”, passion, romance, and whimsically unrealistic expectations of men. She is also unbelievably self centered when it comes to relationships. I despise this sort of girls but thankfully, I don’t have to date them.

And even she cheated. TWICE. Once on Aidan with Big, repeatedly and with no intentions to stop till she got caught by Big’s WIFE. Embarrassing. Another time while married to Big… with Aidan. I consider kissing cheating too btw. Anything that will hurt your partner is considered cheating. Just coz she saw him in Abu Dhabi and thinks it *roll eyes* MUST be destiny.

“Here’s the litmus test – if it will upset the other person when they find out, I think it’s considered cheating. So if you have to hide it, you shouldn’t be doing it.”

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July6th

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Wondering Why Girls Keep Crappy Boyfriends…

Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants, Your Best Life!

I’m not gonna lie, I have had my fair share of loser boyfriends, but what I don’t understand is how some girls never seem to outgrow this phase? Sure it’s hard to walk away (Been there, done that ten times trust me…) but once you do let go, you’re one step closer to being happy and finding exactly what you deserve. I know soooo many cute girls and how come so many of them have fool boyfriends? I am finally to the point where unless I am with someone equally invested in my happiness, I am 100% not interested. I am getting too old, and have too much self respect to sit and nag at some fool to give me what I know I deserve, how come not every girl feels this way? Before we go any further, yes this applies to guys as well, dating lame girls that is, I however am writing it from my view. Please save the girls are a mess too comments, trust me I know.

I think a lot of girls think they need a boyfriend, but realistically um… you don’t. What is even crazier is these guys the girls think they need, do nothing nice for them. I’m convinced most girls are totally in love with the idea of love and not the actual guy. I also think it has a lot to do with a loss of control. When guys back off and stop caring about the relationship, girls enter panic mode and try harder. No. Stop. Girls, most of the time when you pick up your lame-0 guy’s slack, he just ends up caring less. He sees how desperate you are to make it work and will abuse his control over you. Best thing to do? Back off. Your guy should want to be with you and want to put in equal work.

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