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Guys- You Snooze? You Lose
So I think its wildly entertaining to have guys pop up into my life after months of not talking. Uh what, you think now, 5 months later I wanna hangout? Nah, actually I forgot you existed 4 months ago until you just texted me… sorry? That whole stop talking, then reappear thing only sends one message… You didn’t care to make an effort then, so either your gf just dumped you, or you’ve finally hit rock bottom and become super desperate, cause ohhh nowwww you’re interested? Well I’m not. It, doesn’t quite work that way. I am over guys thinking the ball and timing is entirely in their court. If you meet someone you think you might be interested in, you only have a certain amount of time to make something happen until most girls are over it. I personally won’t wait long if there are too many complications, games, or lame hangout attempts. Nexxxxt.
You had your chance, lost it, now take my number outta your blackberry. With the amount of men that come in and out of my life I don’t really get hung up on one or another. If it doesnt work, then no biggie, for every 1 no, there are 794 other yes’.
Oh and what about the ex boyfriends who hit 30+, have nervous breakdowns that they’re still 30, single and getting drunk in bars with their loser friends who think the party never stops, hitting up their ex gfs wanting to settle down now. Hahaha nooope. Do yourself a favor and grab a girl while you still can. The party does stop and when you finally realize it does, your ex gf doesn’t want to hear about it. She’ll be married with kids by then anyway. So today’s lesson for men is, hey even if you might not be entirely ready for something with a girl, you should know a good thing when you see it, so if you walk right past it? Please never walk back cause we’re over it
AHahahsda FOOLzzzzz
San Diego Chargers Hit Up Pure Platinum Saturday Before JETS Game!?
Is this a joke? Seriously? Am I missing something here?
ESPN reported that the manager of a well known strip club here in San Diego called “Pure Platinum” called XX1090 radio the other afternoon to tell the host John Cantera that at least eight Chargers were at his strip club drinking into the early hours of the morning, less that 36 hours before the game with the Jets on Sunday. Ummmm WHAT!?
The Chargers are a complete mess. Lets see in the past year I have seen them out almost every weekend dumping champagne on eachother, drunk driving, nailing trash like Tila Tequila, throwing bottles at Barwest, I mean can anyone really wonder why we’re not Super Bowl champs? As much as I love my team, their behavior is more like jaded rap stars than devoted athletes.
Kassim Osgood was on Radio 1090 today, and said “it is a big deal if they went out on Friday night and I will be pissed if that story is true because of how much my teammates and I have sacrificed this year.” For all you people who say they can do what they want? Sure they can, but when they do whatever the hell they want, they’re disrespecting EVERYONE that supports them. Fans, coaches, teammates…
I can not believe someone suggested the idea they hit up a trashy strip club before such a HUGE game, and SEVEN others confirmed it was an amazing idea? Dear Chargers, grow up. If you want to pop bottles, chase stripper tail 24/7, dump booze on one another, drunk drive, date celebrities, then maybe you should move to LA and start rapping. I don’t really know how or when being an athlete took on a new meaning, but the Chargers need to focus on who they are and what their roles are. You are NOT Pdiddy.
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The Spill of Sl*uts
Ha ha this video is great. Couldn’t have said it better myself. What is wrong with girls these days? Oh and can we talk about that reality show about that guy in his parents basement? Frank? What girl would ever seriously show their face on that show?
Everywhere I look, everywhere I go I see the same…
VH1 Reality Show Bus Crashes In California Causing Major Slut Spill
Girls get it together. Thanks.
Staying Positive is HARD… but Possible!
I really hate the generation we live in right now, there is so much bad going on it is hard to stay positive these days. Minus what a great, fun life I have most of the time, people and their values these days seem to be at an all time low and it really is constant work to stay positive and focused on what matters. The loyalty, honesty and respect most people once carried has almost entirely vanished, it’s so discouraging. Everyone you read about is having affairs with random, younger women, trading in their entire hand built marriage for bimbos in clubs or hookers, committing white collar crimes, boyfriends releasing personal pictures of celebrity ex gfs for money, it all makes me sick. People treat each other with no respect.
With all these recent cheaters, combined with my own life experience of crappy boyfriends and friends, I can’t help but go off on a tangent about how crazy our time really is. Even talking to my 82 year old grandma last night, she tells me in all her years alive, right now is the worst it has ever, ever been. How awful is that? To say that in her entire life this society and this nation is the worst its ever been?
It really gets me thinking. What is different? What has changed? Well, I have no idea WHEN or WHERE it changed but things are certainly different. Here are my thoughts on why our society is a total mess:
1. Dumber girls with zero self respect. Bigger boobs, shorter skirts, easier girls. Music videos tell us that is what is hot and wanted, all being told to us by these fool rappers that end up cheating on their wives and girlfriends anyway. The dumber women get, the more men want to use them, the more they don’t respect traditional relationships, why would they? I really don’t blame men entirely. Honestly, if I was a guy in today’s society I would think women were a total joke. Average, normal girls now commonly resort to prostitution and sleeping with married men/celebrities to feel self worth. Like did all these mistresses Tiger was with think they were really the only one? HE HAS A WIFE! Why are you in his HOUSE? Why are you texting him? Because you’re dumb, desperate, and ok with being the total random chick on the side.
Girls are way way way too easy today, they stand for nothing and fall for everything. Are ALL girls this way? Of course not, but overall I think girls are responsible for more than the men. Men have and always will do what they are allowed.
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FAKE FAKE FAKE Crazy Amber Elizabeth Internet FAKE!
This is by far the craziest thing that has EVER happened to me, and looking back I am a total fool for not seeing all the clues. This is a lesson to everyone, seriously… trust no one online, nooooo one.
As you know I have this site, about 5 months ago right when I started this, a really nice girl named “Kail Kade” emailed me telling me she was a personal trainer and fitness model out of NYC but LOVED my site. I was so flattered, she was so cute and so nice. Over the next 5 months, we would talk on facebook, email, text, aim… and actually established a full on friendship. She would talk about her boyfriend “Phil”, living in NYC, waking up at 4am to hit the gym, wanting to move to Cali, she told me she landed a HUGE modeling contract for a well known large company out here, and that her and her fiance were moving to a high rise condo Downtown, etc etc etc. Honestly it was 5 months of non stop communication. We’d talk about fitness, diets, dating, friends, fashion, cooking, Halloween, she was in Vegas around the time of my birthday so I told her to meet up, she told me she just got engaged that night out there and that Phil flew out to surprise her. Just non stop crazy deep stories. Her grandma just died and I was really sad for her, she had this huge elaborate story on how her grandma was now dancing with the angles in heaven. This girl even sent me a picture of her dying grandma! As well as baby and teenage pics of herself! Stalker much?
Anyway, I showed her picture to another friend who is super into fitness and he asked me if her name was Amber Elizabeth? I said noooo, her name is Kail. I promptly googled that name to see who that was. Amber Elizabeth is a huge, well known fitness model and Kail Kade does NOT exist. Not one google search with her name. Pretty wild considering she would show me the fitness ads she was in. You’d think her name would be somewhere, anywhere! No where. I contacted Amber’s agent asking if he had heard of a Kail Kade, because Kail would mention his name all the time to me, and nope sure enough, he had no clue who she was.
*UPDATE: I am a total psycho and harassed the girl so much that she finally told me who she was. She is literally an 18 year old freshman at North Carolina state who does this in her dorm bored. She admitted she’s been doing this for 5 years as a result of her parents divorce. She said all she would do is hide in her room after her dad left them. She admitted she’s sick and even said she gets treatment for these 2nd life addictions. I also got her to go on Skype video chat to confirm all of this. I had to know for my own sanity and security who I had been talking to. Pretty sad story, I have forgiven her and moved on. I hope the rest of the 55 people she lied to are as forgiving, however I doubt they will be.
She admitted she had tons and tons of fake profiles of Kail’s friends and family. And admitted pretending to be multiple people before Kail. Nuts.
Here is just one of the hundreds of pictures Kail sent me.
People That Address Their Haters…
Of course when it comes to haters, some are just jealous and unhappy people wanting to hate on anyone, howeverrr I have been coming across some people lately that are in denial of their annoyance level thinking the “haters” are the problem. I am a firm believer in people “hating” on others they don’t understand, but these people telling “haters” off need to stop and think, why are people hating?
Are people hating you for no reason? Jealous of your hard work and success? Or are you just flat out obnoxious? Cause there IS a difference.
# 1 Reason MOST people hate?
“Relax, Chill Out, It’s Ok…”
You know what I hate more than anything? When I am having a stressful moment and people take it upon themselves to tell me to “relax” in that annnnoying, condescending tone. Basically telling me “You’re an over reacting psycho” It’s just hidden in the phrase “relax”. Hmm noooo how about you Fk!$w*@#ing relax. Nothing is more irritating.
What do you think telling me to “relax” accomplishes? Let’s be real you just have nothing else to say so you instead tell me to relax. Well for the record, telling someone to relax is the worst thing you can do because what you are saying is that their stresses aren’t worth stressing over. You think I am worrying over nothing? Maybe I am, but how about you address the issue rather than tell me to relax. 
Come to think of it I hate any short half ass replies.
“It’s ok” – Really? What’s ok? The fact that you’re lazy and not really listening? Ya that’s ok…
“I’m sorry.” – Really? What are you sorry about? I’m sorry you’re 23+ and can’t communicate properly.
“Chill Out”- I don’t ever want to be “chill” but thanks!
“Smile” – Uh I will smile when I want to?
Long story short, if you think you’re helping by telling someone to relax, chill out, or to calm down, you’re NOT. Not 1%. Next time you have a friend venting to you, avoid these lazy replies and try listening for a change, and offer an actual response…
” I know you are frustrated right now, but let me help you look for your keys.”
” I know you are running late, but don’t worry I will help you get ready.”
” I know you wanted to make it to that meeting in time but you already missed it, maybe we can write your boss a letter explaining the situation.”
Who knows the circumstance, but people need to start being better friends and ditch the condescending short replies, they help no one. Thanks 
Sappy Sunday-How To Deal With Envious People
Lately I have been dealing with people suffering from serious envy and jealousy issues. Correction, not people, but friends. I am jealous of my friends often, but not in a bad way, if my friends have something cool or different, and I want it, I am not afraid to tell them. After all, they’re my friends… there shouldn’t be unhealthy competition amongst friends, I surround myself with motivated, smart people for a reason, because they inspire growth.
I often come across cool opportunities which my friends know I share with everyone. I want my friends to succeed, to be the best, to be happy, to experience awesome new things so I never leave anyone out. I really do offer my connections to all my friends, but lately I have had friends not giving the same. You know you all have that one friend who sneaks off to the cool stuff, and doesn’t invite you?
