• Dating Do’s & Don’ts

  • August23rd

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    7 Signs You’re Dating a Player

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts

    Haha, I found this article on Cosmo.com and I had to share! The top 7 signs he’s probably dating you and uh yeah, 7 others. I loved it, so funny. Not like I can relate or anything… Some are so true, but some are so dumb. Anyway, here are Cosmo’s 7 player signs to look out for while dating.

    1. All of His Exes Are “Crazy”

    Be wary of a man who refers to his former girlfriends as crazy, psycho, or clingy — because what’s the common denominator here? Duh, him. The dude’s either nuts, or he never really wanted the relationship to work in the first place. Don’t forget, behind every crazy chick is probably (not always) a guy who made her that way.

    2. He Plans Ultra-Romantic Dates
    A cozy candlelit dinner is nice and all, but if he only takes you to secluded places, it could be a tip-off that he doesn’t want other women to spot him on a date. Next time he asks you out, suggest hitting up a busy restaurant or popular bar and see how he reacts.

    3. He’s Hot and Cold on the Phone
    He’ll text you 10 times in a night, then go MIA for days. He’ll chat on the phone for an hour, then ignore your messages for the rest of the week. Wondering what the hell is going on? We’re going to be brutally honest: He’s mostly likely busy dating other women.

    4. He Guilt-Trips You
    It’s normal for a guy to be eager to sleep with you from day one. But this behavior is a red flag if he a. lays the pressure on thick, or b. tries to make you feel bad if you choose not to have sex — like by giving you a sob story about blue balls. Point is he obviously doesn’t care about respecting you, all he wants is a quick solution to his down below problem.

    5. Stuff Is Missing from His Facebook Profile
    Did he untag photos of you and him? Refuses to add your pictures? Does he update or check it often, yet never mentions hanging out with you? Is his relationship status hidden? We smell a rat. A big fat rat. A guy who’s leery of commitment will make sure there are no traces of you on his page. Read More | Comments

  • August17th

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    My Take on the Movie “Obsessed”

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants

    So yeah, I am wayyyy too late in seeing the movie Obsessed, I know, but I just saw it last night and it made me furious. Lisa is suchhhh a wh*re. Probably not a good movie for someone like me to watch, I despise desperate, evil women who prey on taken men and the entire idea of cheating makes my blood boil. I thought I’d share my thoughts on the movie because it is such a perfect example of why men need to be smarter when dealing with pretty women, ESPECIALLY if you’re already in a relationship.

    Here are the key points that I think Beyonce’s husband did wrong:

    1. He allowed Lisa’s flirting. Hello? As if you guys don’t know when a skank is flirting with you. Her psycho comments about the dirty martini, the oh he’s so handsome and looks just like you remark, the calling your wife by the wrong name, it’s all apparent she’s playing games and a psycho. Why did he even listen to her? Why did he even sit and have a drink with her? You just like the attention sooo much it’s worth the risk of losing your entire relationship?

    He put himself in that bad situation, what did he expect after drinking with such an aggressive wh*re? Um yeah no. FLIRTING that way is NEVER allowed when you are dating someone, let alone married.

    He should have A. Never gone to the spouse free holiday party alone, knowing Lisa’s wh*re ass would be there B. If he did, he shoulda kept his space and not spoken to her at all C. He could have brought his wife anyway knowing the circumstance D. He could have not consumed booze E. And if he f’d up all of that still, he should have ran home and told his wife ev-er-y-thing. Typical weak man, preferred playing around with her advances and only backing off once the line was crossed. No. Why even go there. You all know what you’re doing.

    2. He lied. Beyonce asked him, how did the party go, anything weird happen? At that very moment he had 2 choices: 1. Forget how tipsy and tired he was and tell his wife what happened or 2. Take the easy way and pretend absolutley nothing happened. Again he chose wrong. He should have taken the 5 minutes to tell his wife the truth. Honesty is everythingggggg in a relationship and well, we all saw the consequence he faced after losing that. They had a 3 month break and lost all his wife’s trust.

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  • August11th

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    Why Too Much Love Drives Him Crazy

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts

    I think the hardest part of being in a relationship is actually understanding what your bf wants is probably very different than what you want. Guys and girls have about as much in common as dogs and cats, so we have to remember what makes you happy doesn’t necessarily make him happy.

    Us girls feed off of emotional love and support and well, during hard times, most men prefer the opposite, they want to handle it alone. It’s girls’ natural instinct to observe our boyfriends having bad days and wanting to do anything in our power to make it better, because well, that is what we want. We have a bad day and we want our boyfriends to call and talk about it, make dinner plans, lay in bed with us as we cry, the whole 9 yards. So when we see the guys upset, we do what we would want them to do for us, but in reality that’s not what most men want. Guys like dealing with things at their own pace, in their own space and actually enjoy figuring things out on their own. So next time your man has a bad day and you’re rushing to his side, take a step back and think about what he really wants, space.

    It seems counterintuitive, but a new series of studies from the University of Iowa discovered that too much support can actually hurt your relationship. “There is this myth that the more encouraging you are, the better,” says lead researcher Erika Lawrence, PhD. “In fact, being overly helpful does greater damage than providing too little assistance.”

    The study also discussed real life situations, men that had been in a tough place—often having been laid off—and the women dropped everything to help them: searching for position openings, proofreading their résumés, being extra affectionate, etc. They thought they were doing exactly what a loving girlfriend or wife should do. But in case after case, guys actually ended up leaving the partners who’d been the most outwardly compassionate. Men are crazyyy, but that’s naturally just how they function.

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  • July6th

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    To All My Cheaters Out There…

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Hot Topics, Rants

    This blog post is lengthy, but I had to post it. It was written by a fellow female blogger and is a a greatttt post about cheating… why people do it, how to avoid it and exactly what it is. Cheating isn’t just kissing or sleeping with someone else, it entails soooo much, muchhhh more. Cheating is the scariest thing to me, because if someone doesn’t know exactly what it is, and how they avoid it, you just never know what someone can do to you… Read up and avoid!

    Cheating rant begins:

    “I fucking HATE it that cheating is so glamourized is TV shows and movies nowadays. Seriously, ALMOST EVERY SINGLE FUCKING SHOW INVOLVES CHEATING! Everybody is doing it, so why shouldn’t you? It’s portrayed as this thing that cannot be helped; is inevitable in all relationships. BUT THAT’S NOT TRUE!

    Carrie Bradshaw is the character in Sex & the City that most women relate the most to. She believes in “The One”, passion, romance, and whimsically unrealistic expectations of men. She is also unbelievably self centered when it comes to relationships. I despise this sort of girls but thankfully, I don’t have to date them.

    And even she cheated. TWICE. Once on Aidan with Big, repeatedly and with no intentions to stop till she got caught by Big’s WIFE. Embarrassing. Another time while married to Big… with Aidan. I consider kissing cheating too btw. Anything that will hurt your partner is considered cheating. Just coz she saw him in Abu Dhabi and thinks it *roll eyes* MUST be destiny.

    “Here’s the litmus test – if it will upset the other person when they find out, I think it’s considered cheating. So if you have to hide it, you shouldn’t be doing it.”


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  • July6th

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    Wondering Why Girls Keep Crappy Boyfriends…

    Posted in: Boysss, Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants, Your Best Life!

    I’m not gonna lie, I have had my fair share of loser boyfriends, but what I don’t understand is how some girls never seem to outgrow this phase? Sure it’s hard to walk away (Been there, done that ten times trust me…) but once you do let go, you’re one step closer to being happy and finding exactly what you deserve. I know soooo many cute girls and how come so many of them have fool boyfriends? I am finally to the point where unless I am with someone equally invested in my happiness, I am 100% not interested. I am getting too old, and have too much self respect to sit and nag at some fool to give me what I know I deserve, how come not every girl feels this way? Before we go any further, yes this applies to guys as well, dating lame girls that is, I however am writing it from my view. Please save the girls are a mess too comments, trust me I know.

    I think a lot of girls think they need a boyfriend, but realistically um… you don’t. What is even crazier is these guys the girls think they need, do nothing nice for them. I’m convinced most girls are totally in love with the idea of love and not the actual guy. I also think it has a lot to do with a loss of control. When guys back off and stop caring about the relationship, girls enter panic mode and try harder. No. Stop. Girls, most of the time when you pick up your lame-0 guy’s slack, he just ends up caring less. He sees how desperate you are to make it work and will abuse his control over you. Best thing to do? Back off. Your guy should want to be with you and want to put in equal work.

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  • March30th

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    Girls, in a Hit it & Quit it Rut?

    Posted in: Dating Do's & Don'ts, Rants

    Sorry I have been so MIA guys, I was working the CTIA convention in Las Vegas, and then was celebrating a birthday in LA this past weekend… Anyway I have sooo much to talk about and so much to post about so don’t leave me just yet. My latest confusion is why floozie girls complain about being single? Sorry guys, this might make it more tricky for you to find your one night stands, but I need to address this issue.

    The other night my guy friend decided to invite 2 girls to join us for a nice dinner in Vegas. I was all for it until they, um… showed up. One girl was a total mess, glammed to the max in denim booty shorts, high high stripper heels, overly glossed collagen lips, pouffy pageant hair, and a top so low I could see her boobs, bra and all. What kind of girl “friend” wears this to a nice dinner, knowing she’s about to meet her guy friend and another girl? When I freaked out about who we were eating with (Embarrassed because she looked like an escort) He told me who cares, shes like 35. Wait what? 35, and you’re still single, prowling around Vegas with your boobs out like you’re hot shit?  Lemme guess, you go home at night, drink 5 bottles of wine alone and wonder why no one takes you serious? Respectable men, the kind you cry about wanting to find, don’t want to date strippers or women that dress like them.

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  • March18th

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    Reggie Bush DUMPS Kim Kardashian? What a Joke

    Posted in: Dating Do's & Don'ts, Hot Topics

    I don’t know if I even care about these two anymore, they break up every hour but… rumor has it Reggie Bush has dumped my fave Kim K?! Gasp! Ummm who is Reggie kidding, does he really think he can get better than Kim Kardashian? What a fool. Typical athlete always thinking the grass is greener on the groupie side. I guess Reggie is young and wants to have fun with all the hoezzzzs, but lets be real, no one’s better than Kim. Talk about a bad move. She makes more than him these days anyway I’m sure.

    Reggie apparently let Kim down easy, telling her he didn’t want to date someone in the limelight. Aka wants to be able to cheat and not be caught. Over the past few months there have been cheating whispers all over about Reggie, he was even spotted last night at New York’s club 1Oak with some little brunette Latin chick.

    Reggie clearly has nothing to offer other than an income and he’s never been into the relationship as much as Kim has, so I think Kim will be much better off with him holding her back. I hope this break up is ferrrr good.

  • February5th

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    Keys To Writing The Perfect L♥ Letter

    Posted in: Dating Do's & Don'ts, Gift Ideas for GIRLS

    Valentine’s Day is almost here, this year I will be writing a love letter to Priscilla to tell her how much I love her, however for all you couples… what better gift to give than a handwritten love letter? Those of you that do have someone to write a love letter to besides your pet might need a few tips! So here I am to save the day :)

    Love letters are fun and they are great gifts! The perfect Valentine’s day gift if you ask me. Guys want points forever? Write a love letter. They show your Valentine how much you care and are a great snapshot of your life together at a particular moment. Love letters tell your love how much you need him (or her) and that feels just as fab on the 14,375th reading as it does on the first.

    • Make them feel it from the start. The letter could start with a nickname, Princess, Pookie, bla bla whatever it may be
    • Mention why you’re writing. It might be an occasion like Valentine’s Day, but I just felt like telling you…is also a good reason.
    • Affirm them. What are their best qualities? What have they done lately that you’re grateful for? What makes you smile?
    • See the future. What are you looking forward to together? Seeing them tonight? Still loving him when he’s 68?
    • Special delivery? Maybe leave the letter in an unexpected place. Mail it to their work, hide it in their car, under the pillow, etc..

    Overall, have fun with it, it’s meant to be cute and sweet not stressful and a chore. Let it just come from the heart! Guarantee they will love it and keep it forever and ever and hey it’s free. Really want brownie points? Throw it on some colored paper and doodle some hearts :)

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