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My Valentine’s Weekend ♥ At La Valencia Hotel
So I told you guys I would have a Valentine this year and I had to let you know that I kept my word 
Perfect Valentine’s weekend filled with yummy food, champagne, candy and pretty sunsets… I had such a fun weekend! I stayed in La Jolla at the La Valencia Hotel and I had a blast exploring the La Jolla tide pools, caves, coves, seals and amazing hotel! My parents had their wedding reception at this hotel so I was excited to see the area. I thought I’d share a few of the awesome pics. (Thanks Mom for the camera, I know you want the credit!)
Next time you need a new, fun place to stay in San Diego definitely check out La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla. Old school hotel but still so nice, plus it’s PINK! There are also so many cute little shops and restaurants to walk around to around the hotel. One restaurant we loved was Azul La Jolla. Azul is owned by the same people that own the Brigatine and Miguel’s in case those are 2 of your faves
Instead of ordering actual entrees we ordered yummy champagne cocktails and a million side orders. Perfect meal. In need of an awesome date location? This place was super fun and delicious. Just avoid the waitress with the pony tail, she was mean. She was probably mean because I asked for sweet champagne and when she brought me dry, gross champagne I sent it back 
oopsie.
Anyway, La Jolla definitely is somewhere you can go and explore tons of new things. The seals are really fun to watch, the waves were huge this weekend, the sunsets were pretty and pink, and like I said tons of bars, restaurants and shops to visit. Next date night try La Jolla!
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Keys To Writing The Perfect L♥ Letter
Valentine’s Day is almost here, this year I will be writing a love letter to Priscilla to tell her how much I love her, however for all you couples… what better gift to give than a handwritten love letter? Those of you that do have someone to write a love letter to besides your pet might need a few tips! So here I am to save the day
Love letters are fun and they are great gifts! The perfect Valentine’s day gift if you ask me. Guys want points forever? Write a love letter. They show your Valentine how much you care and are a great snapshot of your life together at a particular moment. Love letters tell your love how much you need him (or her) and that feels just as fab on the 14,375th reading as it does on the first.
- Make them feel it from the start. The letter could start with a nickname, Princess, Pookie, bla bla whatever it may be
- Mention why you’re writing. It might be an occasion like Valentine’s Day, but I just felt like telling you…is also a good reason.
- Affirm them. What are their best qualities? What have they done lately that you’re grateful for? What makes you smile?
- See the future. What are you looking forward to together? Seeing them tonight? Still loving him when he’s 68?
- Special delivery? Maybe leave the letter in an unexpected place. Mail it to their work, hide it in their car, under the pillow, etc..
Overall, have fun with it, it’s meant to be cute and sweet not stressful and a chore. Let it just come from the heart! Guarantee they will love it and keep it forever and ever and hey it’s free. Really want brownie points? Throw it on some colored paper and doodle some hearts
Guys- You Snooze? You Lose
So I think its wildly entertaining to have guys pop up into my life after months of not talking. Uh what, you think now, 5 months later I wanna hangout? Nah, actually I forgot you existed 4 months ago until you just texted me… sorry? That whole stop talking, then reappear thing only sends one message… You didn’t care to make an effort then, so either your gf just dumped you, or you’ve finally hit rock bottom and become super desperate, cause ohhh nowwww you’re interested? Well I’m not. It, doesn’t quite work that way. I am over guys thinking the ball and timing is entirely in their court. If you meet someone you think you might be interested in, you only have a certain amount of time to make something happen until most girls are over it. I personally won’t wait long if there are too many complications, games, or lame hangout attempts. Nexxxxt.
You had your chance, lost it, now take my number outta your blackberry. With the amount of men that come in and out of my life I don’t really get hung up on one or another. If it doesnt work, then no biggie, for every 1 no, there are 794 other yes’.
Oh and what about the ex boyfriends who hit 30+, have nervous breakdowns that they’re still 30, single and getting drunk in bars with their loser friends who think the party never stops, hitting up their ex gfs wanting to settle down now. Hahaha nooope. Do yourself a favor and grab a girl while you still can. The party does stop and when you finally realize it does, your ex gf doesn’t want to hear about it. She’ll be married with kids by then anyway. So today’s lesson for men is, hey even if you might not be entirely ready for something with a girl, you should know a good thing when you see it, so if you walk right past it? Please never walk back cause we’re over it
AHahahsda FOOLzzzzz
Cute Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas & Quotes ♥
I love ♥Valentine’s Day♥, I don’t know why because every year I have a crappy one, but I still love it I also love quotes and wanted to give you guys a few to think about or add in your Valentine’s Day cards or crafts. People have asked me what to get their Valentines this year and since Valentine’s Day is about expressing love, I think the best gifts are those that show how you feel, crafts, pictures, flowers, letters etc…
♥Guys: Here is a TIP on Valentine’s Days, girls want to hear how much they mean to you. She would take a hand written card/note over a big gift any day! So this year plan ahead, make your Valentine something special that shows effort and emotion. Ewww emotions, I know. Frame her a picture, make her a Valentine, write her a nice card letting her know the top 10 things you love about her (For me I would need top 100 ) Plan a fun date night for the two of you, doesn’t have to be fancy, girls just want fun nights with you. Valentine’s Day is about love, not money.
♥Girls: Guys want to feel loved and cared for. Make them a nice dinner with all his favorite foods and booze. You know all those things he begs you to do that you never do every other day of the year? Do them today. Pretty simple. Think back to something you’re always saying NO to, whatever it may be…and today say OK I also think guys secretly like flowers. Girls, you can get your guy flowers too, chances are he’s never had them and let’s be real, who doesn’t love flowers and a nice card.
Ok now for some of my favorite L♥ve quotes to get us all in the V-day m♥♥d:
Love is all you need.
Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
Nelly Talks Cheaters & Relationships
My man Nelly sat down with www.flyguychronicles.com to talk about some of the latest scandals going on in celebrity relationships. From Tiger Woods cheating to how he handles groupies and side chicks, here is a glimpse into the way Nelly views relationships. Pretty interesting, I wonder how much of it is actually sincere considering Nelly has his fair share of groupie h*eszzzz?
Nelly On whether you should confess to cheating, even if you don’t get caught…
Obviously no one wants to get cheated on and no one wants to hurt the person they are with. I think its one of those things where” to each its own”. No relationship is the same and I think that is what we are forgetting when we look at this. A relationship should be whatever makes those two people happy. That’s what we forget. Everyone is trying to stereotype what a relationship should be. If those two people are happy, that’s the way it should be. I hate when you look at all these books on how to make a relationship work. How the hell you are going to say how to make a relationship work when people aren’t the same? Their environment aren’t the same. They go to marriage counselors telling them how a relationship should be and his relationship ain’t even right.
Nelly On Tiger Woods In The Media…
I don’t see how all these wimpy ass cats are coming out talking about how they’ve lost all this respect for Tiger…. If I was tiger i would say “I’m apologizing to my wife and my family. I’m not apologizing to nobody else out here. I don’t owe nobody else anything. This was MY wife. That’s who he owes his apology to. He owes that to his kids. It has nothing to do with golf. That has nothing to do with a public perception. That was a personal relationship. That’s what I hate. He without sin cast the first stone. That’s how I feel. Can’t no one mess with that man on the golf course and I hope he comes out and whips everyone’s ass. I’m cheering for Tiger than ever now.
2009 The Year of Mistake Men
Hahahah guys make me laugh. Looking back at 2009, it was most definitely the year of mistake men but hey, that is what makes life fun. Just like that quote says, “A girl can wait for the right man to come along, but in the meantime that doesn’t mean she can’t have fun with all the wrong ones.”
That was my 2009, no right one in sight so I will make do with what I got. I thought it would be fun to go through my 2009 dating line up to share with you what made all of my 2009 men deal breakers.
1. The never ending break up. Never make the mistake of trying to re-date your ex, especially when they aren’t even asking to get back together. I made that mistake of allowing that whole lets hang out as “friends” thing and boy did I learn my lesson. Oh so we’re friends as you date other girls? Ya nooo. Don’t go there. I learned unless he is at your door begging for you back, he’s just killing time. Don’t be your ex bf’s security blanket.
2. Athletes- Sure they’re hot, successful and wanted by many, but at the end of the day most are utterly pointless. I talked to one NFL’er for a bit but realized I was just 1/500 others. I learned there is no point dating someone like that. As much as I love athletic guys and football, I could never sacrifice my happiness by staying with a professional athlete as a side dish. I don’t know how or why girl’s allow themselves to be involved in that. For 2010? Just say no to men who want more than one woman. Tiger Woods included. Who cares who they are, if you sense they are players, save yourself the time. If they leave her for you, they’ll leave you for her.
Joshy is irrelevant to this post Click to read more about my mistake men…
To Catch a Predator? NO, to Catch a Cheater!
I guess this is the month of me against cheaters, haha…with all these cheaters surfacing I can’t help it! I mentioned this last week on my Twitter, but I am convinced the best way to catch a cheater is to monitor their cell phone and gadget protectiveness. Call me a psycho but if your man is over protective of his phone, email, or social networking accounts he’s probably up to no good. After all, cell phones are usually where all the dirt is stashed.
Warning signs?
Those stupid passcodes people put on their phone. I made the mistake of dating a guy who had one. I put one on mine also just to pretend I didn’t care and that I had secret texts also, til I realized that relationship was pointless, I had nothing to hide, he obviously did. If your man is locking his phone… let’s think about why? Seriously… secret work emails? Unless he is the President or in the FBI, locked phones are no good and don’t buy the “oh my phone calls people in my pocket story”… ya whatever.
If your man turns his phone off when you hang out? Another weird sign. Worried about unexpected interruptions?
He takes his phone everywhere? The bathroom, the shower, always in hand? Red flag.
Test your man. Ask to use his phone, even with him right next to you so snooping isn’t a concern. If he reacts guarded, hostile or sketched out… he’s probably hiding something. It sucks to be in this situation but you better believe I am going to find out versus sit around and be played for a fool. Of course there are exceptions to this theory, and this is more so directed for those in serious relationships that suspect cheating is going on. I also am assuming you have attempted talking to him about it honestly first, some men refuse to be honest on their own so hey, gotta to do what you gotta do. Try it, let me know how it goes. His response will tell you everything
10 Things Men L♥ve & Hate About Women
My friend sent me this article today, I like it. It is nice to see men still appreciate things other than looks. Top 10 things men love about women and of course, also the things they hate…. Have something to add? Let’s keep the list going with things you want in a girl, here is your chance boyssss PS I love the terminology of this article. “Keep it real Ma” “I ain’t coo with no nasty woman” ahhaahah…
First, we’ll start with the bad…the things men HATE:
I hate a nagging a** female. Women who are always on my back and yip-yapping about how wrong I do every little thing really pi**es me off. Like she’ll ask you to do something and she’s standing over your shoulder critiquing you and telling you how to do what she asked you to do. Then halfway dismiss you to try and do it herself. Then she’ll get sensitive when I snap back like “let me do this! Didn’t you ask me to do this? Shut up!” Ladies, don’t fuss! – Brandon, 27
A dirty female is a major turn-off. I can’t stand no nasty woman. If you nasty then let me know up front. I was really digging this girl and whenever I would go over to her place, it was very clean and neat everything was in place. I thought she was almost too clean. Then she switched it on me. Man, we kicked it for about three or four months and the more and more I saw her, the more careless she got. So I was like okay, I want to see how dirty she will let her place get. Wow. She had a thick black ring in the shower, toilet was dirty with splatter stains and the kitchen?! Brah, I knew she was too good to be true. – Tre, 32
I hate when women try to match a man’s strength and strong arm you, swing at you, throw punches at you … that’s unladylike. I had this one girl who would get violent and aggressive or try to evoke emotion out of me whenever I said something she wasn’t feeling. She would just start swinging, biting, name-calling all that sh*t. What I’mma do? Get my a** beat? No. I’m not going to beat on a woman and so a woman won’t beat on me. You talk about a double standard, when you pin her down and tell her a** to calm down, she want to go call the police and play the victim. Thats’ a woman for you. – Lionel, 36
Jealous women make life hard. I was with this chick for a while and the more time we spent together, the more jealous she became. I would be at the coffee shop on the phone with her and she’d hear a female in the background and she would make a smart remark like, “why were you flirting wit her? Was she cute?” Or if I worked late, I’m banging my co-worker. If we have an argument, I’m cheating. At the restaurant, “I saw you looking at the waitress’s booty, you want to f**k her, huh?” She was just outlandish. She’s also giving me all the leeway to do those things. – Marcus, 27
I can’t stand a frontin’ a** woman! In the beginning a woman will cook, clean, workout. Keep her body on point, all of that! She’ll get you excited and tell you all the things she’ll do to keep her man happy and at home and once she got you, she stops trying! She’s eating oreos and ice cream at midnight, picking up fast food for dinner, ain’t seen her hit the gym since we made this thing official. Don’t sell a dream! If you don’t like to cook, say that! If you really not the outdoorsy/ go hard in the gym girl, don’t fake it, ma! – Jonathan, 30
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