Guys- Hot In Hoodies

Another item I love when guys wear are hoodies. They’re so basic but look so fab… Simple thing to throw on and look good effortless. Just make sure they’re clean guys Again I love the basic black hoodie, but here are a few other fun hoodies I found that I really like. Some even under $30 bucks! I also found a fun site for guys with some affordable but nice options! Drjays.com has tonssss of hoodies all at great prices and fun styles.

Penguin ‘Wax On’ Waffle Knit Hoody from Nordstrom.com $79.00

DISTRESSED CREST HOODIE $25.00

LRG- CLUBHOUSE CRUSHER ZIP HOODIE $74.99

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Guys- You Snooze? You Lose

So I think its wildly entertaining to have guys pop up into my life after months of not talking. Uh what, you think now, 5 months later I wanna hangout? Nah, actually I forgot you existed 4 months ago until you just texted me… sorry? That whole stop talking, then reappear thing only sends one message… You didn’t care to make an effort then, so either your gf just dumped you, or you’ve finally hit rock bottom and become super desperate, cause ohhh nowwww you’re interested? Well I’m not. It, doesn’t quite work that way. I am over guys thinking the ball and timing is entirely in their court. If you meet someone you think you might be interested in, you only have a certain amount of time to make something happen until most girls are over it. I personally won’t wait long if there are too many complications, games, or lame hangout attempts. Nexxxxt.

You had your chance, lost it, now take my number outta your blackberry. With the amount of men that come in and out of my life I don’t really get hung up on one or another. If it doesnt work, then no biggie, for every 1 no, there are 794 other yes’.

I also know so many guys who casually date girls, act a fool for months causing the girl to finally leave and thennn the guy runs back a few months later wanting to change and commit. Again it doesn’t work that way. Once we reach that we cant stand you point there is no turning back. There is a certain amount of bitterness inside us that will prevent us from ever liking you again, even if that’s all we ever wanted. So many guys play little games with me, half ass try to date me, causing me to get over it and disappear, all to have them crawling back months later now wanting to try. I try to convince myself to give them another shot but I physically, mentally and emotionally can’t. You look super pathetic and I’m totally over it. Most guys think they have endless chances with girls, and sure some loser girls might give you 23 tries, but no self respecting girl would ever.

Oh and what about the ex boyfriends who hit 30+, have nervous breakdowns that they’re still 30, single and getting drunk in bars with their loser friends who think the party never stops, hitting up their ex gfs wanting to settle down now. Hahaha nooope. Do yourself a favor and grab a girl while you still can. The party does stop and when you finally realize it does, your ex gf doesn’t want to hear about it. She’ll be married with kids by then anyway. So today’s lesson for men is, hey even if you might not be entirely ready for something with a girl, you should know a good thing when you see it, so if you walk right past it? Please never walk back cause we’re over it

AHahahsda FOOLzzzzz

Nelly Talks Cheaters & Relationships

My man Nelly sat down with www.flyguychronicles.com to talk about some of the latest scandals going on in celebrity relationships. From Tiger Woods cheating to how he handles groupies and side chicks, here is a glimpse into the way Nelly views relationships. Pretty interesting, I wonder how much of it is actually sincere considering Nelly has his fair share of groupie h*eszzzz?

Nelly On whether you should confess to cheating, even if you don’t get caught…

Obviously no one wants to get cheated on and no one wants to hurt the person they are with. I think its one of those things where” to each its own”. No relationship is the same and I think that is what we are forgetting when we look at this. A relationship should be whatever makes those two people happy. That’s what we forget. Everyone is trying to stereotype what a relationship should be. If those two people are happy, that’s the way it should be. I hate when you look at all these books on how to make a relationship work. How the hell you are going to say how to make a relationship work when people aren’t the same? Their environment aren’t the same. They go to marriage counselors telling them how a relationship should be and his relationship ain’t even right.

Nelly On Tiger Woods In The Media…

I don’t see how all these wimpy ass cats are coming out talking about how they’ve lost all this respect for Tiger…. If I was tiger i would say “I’m apologizing to my wife and my family. I’m not apologizing to nobody else out here. I don’t owe nobody else anything. This was MY wife. That’s who he owes his apology to. He owes that to his kids. It has nothing to do with golf. That has nothing to do with a public perception. That was a personal relationship. That’s what I hate. He without sin cast the first stone. That’s how I feel. Can’t no one mess with that man on the golf course and I hope he comes out and whips everyone’s ass. I’m cheering for Tiger than ever now.

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2009 The Year of Mistake Men

Hahahah guys make me laugh. Looking back at 2009, it was most definitely the year of mistake men but hey, that is what makes life fun. Just like that quote says, “A girl can wait for the right man to come along, but in the meantime that doesn’t mean she can’t have fun with all the wrong ones.”

That was my 2009, no right one in sight so I will make do with what I got. I thought it would be fun to go through my 2009 dating line up to share with you what made all of my 2009 men deal breakers.

1. The never ending break up. Never make the mistake of trying to re-date your ex, especially when they aren’t even asking to get back together. I made that mistake of allowing that whole lets hang out as “friends” thing and boy did I learn my lesson.  Oh so we’re friends as you date other girls? Ya nooo. Don’t go there. I learned unless he is at your door begging for you back, he’s just killing time. Don’t be your ex bf’s security blanket.

2. Athletes- Sure they’re hot, successful and wanted by many, but at the end of the day most are utterly pointless. I talked to one NFL’er for a bit but realized I was just 1/500 others. I learned there is no point dating someone like that. As much as I love athletic guys and football, I could never sacrifice my happiness by staying with a professional athlete as a side dish. I don’t know how or why girl’s allow themselves to be involved in that. For 2010? Just say no to men who want more than one woman. Tiger Woods included. Who cares who they are, if you sense they are players, save yourself the time. If they leave her for you, they’ll leave you for her.

Joshy is irrelevant to this post Click to read more about my mistake men…

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10 Things Men L♥ve & Hate About Women

My friend sent me this article today, I like it. It is nice to see men still appreciate things other than looks. Top 10 things men love about women and of course, also the things they hate…. Have something to add? Let’s keep the list going with things you want in a girl, here is your chance boyssss PS I love the terminology of this article. “Keep it real Ma” “I ain’t coo with no nasty woman” ahhaahah…

First, we’ll start with the bad…the things men HATE:

I hate a nagging a** female. Women who are always on my back and yip-yapping about how wrong I do every little thing really pi**es me off. Like she’ll ask you to do something and she’s standing over your shoulder critiquing you and telling you how to do what she asked you to do. Then halfway dismiss you to try and do it herself. Then she’ll get sensitive when I snap back like “let me do this! Didn’t you ask me to do this? Shut up!” Ladies, don’t fuss! – Brandon, 27

A dirty female is a major turn-off. I can’t stand no nasty woman. If you nasty then let me know up front. I was really digging this girl and whenever I would go over to her place, it was very clean and neat everything was in place. I thought she was almost too clean. Then she switched it on me. Man, we kicked it for about three or four months and the more and more I saw her, the more careless she got. So I was like okay, I want to see how dirty she will let her place get. Wow. She had a thick black ring in the shower, toilet was dirty with splatter stains and the kitchen?! Brah, I knew she was too good to be true. – Tre, 32

I hate when women try to match a man’s strength and strong arm you, swing at you, throw punches at you … that’s unladylike. I had this one girl who would get violent and aggressive or try to evoke emotion out of me whenever I said something she wasn’t feeling. She would just start swinging, biting, name-calling all that sh*t. What I’mma do? Get my a** beat? No. I’m not going to beat on a woman and so a woman won’t beat on me. You talk about a double standard, when you pin her down and tell her a** to calm down, she want to go call the police and play the victim. Thats’ a woman for you. – Lionel, 36

Jealous women make life hard. I was with this chick for a while and the more time we spent together, the more jealous she became. I would be at the coffee shop on the phone with her and she’d hear a female in the background and she would make a smart remark like, “why were you flirting wit her? Was she cute?” Or if I worked late, I’m banging my co-worker. If we have an argument, I’m cheating. At the restaurant, “I saw you looking at the waitress’s booty, you want to f**k her, huh?” She was just outlandish. She’s also giving me all the leeway to do those things. – Marcus, 27

I can’t stand a frontin’ a** woman! In the beginning a woman will cook, clean, workout. Keep her body on point, all of that! She’ll get you excited and tell you all the things she’ll do to keep her man happy and at home and once she got you, she stops trying! She’s eating oreos and ice cream at midnight, picking up fast food for dinner, ain’t seen her hit the gym since we made this thing official. Don’t sell a dream! If you don’t like to cook, say that! If you really not the outdoorsy/ go hard in the gym girl, don’t fake it, ma! – Jonathan, 30

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What to Workout In? …For the Fellas

A while ago my friend asked me to write about what guys should work out in, for me the answer was obvious but I guess some of you are appropriate gym attire challenged, so I shall let you know what’s upppp. First for the DON’Ts…

1. Board shorts. Yuck. You aren’t swimming, we’ve been over this.

2. Weird shoes- Boots? Sneakers you’d skate in? Sandals? No.

3. Holey clothing. The other day I noticed a hole in the armpit of my shirt, I left the gym immediately.

4. Those weird shirts with the sides cut out? All droopy? I don’t even know what those are but no. Anything that shows your pecks? Out.

5. Bandannas, sorry I hate them. Please don’t send me hate email ahacxvvh. Get real you tho, you don’t need a bandanna, get a towel.

6. Sweatsuits, unless they are plain, no. Too matchy matchy, leave that for me.

7. Lame brand logo shirts, we know Affliction is out but out means OUT. Even at the gym.

Now onto the DO’s

1. Gym clothing! Who’d have guessed? Plain colored, fitted tank tops, wife beaters or crew necks. If you want to be extra cautious aim for all black or white to avoid sweat marks.

2. Gym pants, or shorts. Any colors. Keep it simple with athletic brands, Nike or Under Armour, tons of appropriate gym attire.

Pretty simple do’s. Basic cotton workout attire, no holes, nothing too wild, loose or tight and you should be all set. Click each pic to explore similar options.

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Switchin it Up, Glammin’ up The Boys

So I always am talking about fashion for girls so hmm, lets take a second to post some stylish looks for the boyzzz in our lives. These looks could be used for any red carpet events or for weddings or other special events. Right now I like the simple but stylish look. Over bow ties, they’re just too much for me, maybe later.

I really like Brad’s style here. Classic and simple. All black suit, black vest and crisp bright white shirt with the top button undone. Make sure your suit is tailored to perfection, any bagginess or shortness kills the look. You could do with or without the little blue scarf/napkin thing. It dresses it up, however I prefer all black.

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