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No, I Do Not Want to Get Coffee Sometime

No, I Do Not Want to Get Coffee Sometime

Ahh, the good old fashioned “we should grab coffee” invitation. I swear, I get asked out on coffee dates several times a week and honestly, I’m not sure why? I would rather poke my own eyes out than sit in a cramped Starbucks, in the middle of the day, with some guy I barely know and probably don’t even want to know. Guys, as women, we know what this approach means by now. It means…
Things I’ll Never Understand: Endless Texting

Things I’ll Never Understand: Endless Texting

I swear endless texting is the new "dating"  in 2013. Every guy I come across honestly thinks texting means we're talking. Yeah no, is that how other girls do it? You just text with someone so much that eventually you two are now magically dating? Here's a concept: If we're not going out on dates, um we're not dating. No wonder guys think I'm too much, texting means absolutely nothing to me. I actually think…
Side Chick vs. Main Chick

Side Chick vs. Main Chick

I haven’t done a good rant in a while and well, I guess I’m feeling a bit over due. It being Valentine’s Day and all, I saw tons of Facebook & Twitter updates about main chicks vs. side chicks and how if he was busy on Valentine’s Day you’re obviously not his main chick, therefore you are a loser. It made me laugh… So "main chick’s" think they’re cool because "he" spent a holiday with them?…
Who Is The Selfish One, Her or Him?

Who Is The Selfish One, Her or Him?

So I am not one to normally take the guys side over girls, but lately??? I am kind of getting sick of all my girlfriends complaining about the same assh*les over and over. If I had a dollar for every-time I heard a "He's sooo selfish..." I would be rich. Don't get me wrong, I have most DEFFFFF been the complainer, I still complain, but it's starting to make more sense to me. Did it…
These Messages Must Stop

These Messages Must Stop

Half of my heart breaks for guys like these, but then the other half rolls it's eyes and says get a clue pal! World, meet Lance Martin. A random, but real important "publicist" from Hollywood. Apparently these days guys think Facebook is a female delivery service? I know guys rely heavily on the "spaghetti theory" when it comes to crap like this, (Email 25 girls, and a few have gotta bite!) However, I am overrrr generic…
Love Vs. Lust

Love Vs. Lust

I found this article on askmen.com I thought it was cute and had a lot of insightful info for people questioning if they're in love or lust. Want help deciding in love or lust? Here are the askmen.com deciding factors... "Are you in love, or is it lust? Love and lust are inextricably intertwined. Lust is ground zero for hormones -- it's nature's way of bringing the opposite sexes together to mate. In fact, without…
STOP Double & Triple Texting!

STOP Double & Triple Texting!

Ok, so you met the cutest new guy or girl, you're dyingggg to hangout so you shoot them a text. Great. Fine. Perfect, way to be aggressive. Ok but woops.... they don't reply? Well bad news for you that's not a good start. I know, I know there are a million things that could have prevented a reply. They did mention white water rafting when you met, maybe they're out of town with no service? Your…
Trusting Your Gut

Trusting Your Gut

I know I man bash a lot, thanks for still reading ;) But geez, most guys my age are such disasters it's hard to understand. Writing helps me vent and put things into perspective. Also hearing all these stories teaches me what I would and wouldn't ever settle for. I see how broken some of my friends get from these guys and I can't help but become upset. Are you guys ready for my latest…
Why Too Much Love Drives Him Crazy

Why Too Much Love Drives Him Crazy

I think the hardest part of being in a relationship is actually understanding what your bf wants is probably very different than what you want. Guys and girls have about as much in common as dogs and cats, so we have to remember what makes you happy doesn't necessarily make him happy. Us girls feed off of emotional love and support and well, during hard times, most men prefer the opposite, they want to handle it…