So yeah, I am wayyyy too late in seeing the movie Obsessed, I know, but I just saw it last night and it made me furious. Lisa is suchhhh a wh*re. Probably not a good movie for someone like me to watch, I despise desperate, evil women who prey on taken men and the entire idea of cheating makes my blood boil. I thought I’d share my thoughts on the movie because it is such a perfect example of why men need to be smarter when dealing with pretty women, ESPECIALLY if you’re already in a relationship.

Here are the key points that I think Beyonce’s husband did wrong:

1. He allowed Lisa’s flirting. Hello? As if you guys don’t know when a skank is flirting with you. Her psycho comments about the dirty martini, the oh he’s so handsome and looks just like you remark, the calling your wife by the wrong name, it’s all apparent she’s playing games and a psycho. Why did he even listen to her? Why did he even sit and have a drink with her? You just like the attention sooo much it’s worth the risk of losing your entire relationship?

He put himself in that bad situation, what did he expect after drinking with such an aggressive wh*re? Um yeah no. FLIRTING that way is NEVER allowed when you are dating someone, let alone married.

He should have A. Never gone to the spouse free holiday party alone, knowing Lisa’s wh*re ass would be there B. If he did, he shoulda kept his space and not spoken to her at all C. He could have brought his wife anyway knowing the circumstance D. He could have not consumed booze E. And if he f’d up all of that still, he should have ran home and told his wife ev-er-y-thing. Typical weak man, preferred playing around with her advances and only backing off once the line was crossed. No. Why even go there. You all know what you’re doing.

2. He lied. Beyonce asked him, how did the party go, anything weird happen? At that very moment he had 2 choices: 1. Forget how tipsy and tired he was and tell his wife what happened or 2. Take the easy way and pretend absolutley nothing happened. Again he chose wrong. He should have taken the 5 minutes to tell his wife the truth. Honesty is everythingggggg in a relationship and well, we all saw the consequence he faced after losing that. They had a 3 month break and lost all his wife’s trust.

3. He didn’t control the situation from the start. Um hello again? The instant that psycho followed you into the bathroom stall you shoulda told someone. Again men rather pretend eh nothing happened, it’s not important. Um no! She’s clearly psycho throwing herself at you, knowing you’re married. Tell your wife, tell your boss, tell someone. The more you pretend nothing is wrong, the more the problem develops. He should have never ever let her return to work the following day. Guys also think us girls will flip out and be mad, yeah we will be mad… at the GIRL, not YOU. Once you lie then you just look guilty, even if it was nothing.

Overall such a psycho movie and to think it could have possibly been avoided if he didn’t play along with her flirtacious advances. The craziest part is I know girls just like Lisa. Desperate, pathetic girls who lie to themselves all day and stalk taken men. Complete mental disorder knowing how psycho you’re being and doing it anyway. Lisa knew he was not into her yet she didn’t give up. It’s pretty crazy how such small, innocent things can grow to be huge, relationship breaking events because of lying or hiding the truth. Honesty is the best and only policy

So guys, remember this: Someday, some girl will flirt with you when you’re in a relationship or married, how are you going to handle it? Real men know not to even go there. If you value your girlfriend or wife you will do what’s right. Maybe your gf or wife is worth losing. Just know if you get caught lying, your relationship will probably never be the same. Everyone has that right vs. wrong voice inside their head, the second you ignore that, you’ve chosen against your relationship. This movie taught me to 1. Always look out for psycho home-wreckers like Lisa and 2. To never date someone who doesn’t know right from wrong, more problems than it’s worth.

Thoughts?