I guess this is the month of me against cheaters, haha…with all these cheaters surfacing I can’t help it! I mentioned this last week on my Twitter, but I am convinced the best way to catch a cheater is to monitor their cell phone and gadget protectiveness. Call me a psycho but if your man is over protective of his phone, email, or social networking accounts he’s probably up to no good. After all, cell phones are usually where all the dirt is stashed.

Warning signs?

Those stupid passcodes people put on their phone. I made the mistake of dating a guy who had one. I put one on mine also just to pretend I didn’t care and that I had secret texts also, til I realized that relationship was pointless, I had nothing to hide, he obviously did. If your man is locking his phone… let’s think about why? Seriously… secret work emails? Unless he is the President or in the FBI, locked phones are no good and don’t buy the “oh my phone calls people in my pocket story”… ya whatever.

If your man turns his phone off when you hang out? Another weird sign. Worried about unexpected interruptions?

He takes his phone everywhere? The bathroom, the shower, always in hand? Red flag.

Test your man. Ask to use his phone, even with him right next to you so snooping isn’t a concern. If he reacts guarded, hostile or sketched out… he’s probably hiding something. It sucks to be in this situation but you better believe I am going to find out versus sit around and be played for a fool. Of course there are exceptions to this theory, and this is more so directed for those in serious relationships that suspect cheating is going on. I also am assuming you have attempted talking to him about it honestly first, some men refuse to be honest on their own so hey, gotta to do what you gotta do. Try it, let me know how it goes. His response will tell you everything

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