My friend sent me this article today, I like it. It is nice to see men still appreciate things other than looks. Top 10 things men love about women and of course, also the things they hate…. Have something to add? Let’s keep the list going with things you want in a girl, here is your chance boyssss PS I love the terminology of this article. “Keep it real Ma” “I ain’t coo with no nasty woman” ahhaahah…

First, we’ll start with the bad…the things men HATE:

I hate a nagging a** female. Women who are always on my back and yip-yapping about how wrong I do every little thing really pi**es me off. Like she’ll ask you to do something and she’s standing over your shoulder critiquing you and telling you how to do what she asked you to do. Then halfway dismiss you to try and do it herself. Then she’ll get sensitive when I snap back like “let me do this! Didn’t you ask me to do this? Shut up!” Ladies, don’t fuss! – Brandon, 27

A dirty female is a major turn-off. I can’t stand no nasty woman. If you nasty then let me know up front. I was really digging this girl and whenever I would go over to her place, it was very clean and neat everything was in place. I thought she was almost too clean. Then she switched it on me. Man, we kicked it for about three or four months and the more and more I saw her, the more careless she got. So I was like okay, I want to see how dirty she will let her place get. Wow. She had a thick black ring in the shower, toilet was dirty with splatter stains and the kitchen?! Brah, I knew she was too good to be true. – Tre, 32

I hate when women try to match a man’s strength and strong arm you, swing at you, throw punches at you … that’s unladylike. I had this one girl who would get violent and aggressive or try to evoke emotion out of me whenever I said something she wasn’t feeling. She would just start swinging, biting, name-calling all that sh*t. What I’mma do? Get my a** beat? No. I’m not going to beat on a woman and so a woman won’t beat on me. You talk about a double standard, when you pin her down and tell her a** to calm down, she want to go call the police and play the victim. Thats’ a woman for you. – Lionel, 36

Jealous women make life hard. I was with this chick for a while and the more time we spent together, the more jealous she became. I would be at the coffee shop on the phone with her and she’d hear a female in the background and she would make a smart remark like, “why were you flirting wit her? Was she cute?” Or if I worked late, I’m banging my co-worker. If we have an argument, I’m cheating. At the restaurant, “I saw you looking at the waitress’s booty, you want to f**k her, huh?” She was just outlandish. She’s also giving me all the leeway to do those things. – Marcus, 27

I can’t stand a frontin’ a** woman! In the beginning a woman will cook, clean, workout. Keep her body on point, all of that! She’ll get you excited and tell you all the things she’ll do to keep her man happy and at home and once she got you, she stops trying! She’s eating oreos and ice cream at midnight, picking up fast food for dinner, ain’t seen her hit the gym since we made this thing official. Don’t sell a dream! If you don’t like to cook, say that! If you really not the outdoorsy/ go hard in the gym girl, don’t fake it, ma! – Jonathan, 30

And now for the things men LOVE…

I like a well-timed woman. A woman who knows when to exercise social etiquette but will unleash her inner hood in the car or at home if she has a problem with me. I like a woman who talks sh*t but knows the appropriate time and place to do so. I like a woman who knows how to be classy with her sexiness and doesn’t look like a hooker when she’s going out for the night but will be my personal freak in the bedroom. I will fall all the way in love with a woman who knows how and when to do what. I guess the saying “a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets” is what I find most desirable. – Lionel, 36

I’m completely attracted to a smart woman. I love a smart woman. If she likes to read books then it’ll enhance our conversation … it’ll never become stale. I love a woman who likes to learn new things and has an opinion about everything. She can say, “hey, you know what I read today ….” and it’ll open up a whole new realm of communication. I love a woman with a heightened sense of intelligence. I like to go to a girl’s house and she’s got a countless amount of books on a variety of subjects and she’s got a quirkiness about her. This says she’s willing to try and learn new things. So one that’s not quick to spat ignorance, she’ll read up, you know. I like an interesting woman. – Marcus, 27

There’s something about a hot woman in an ugly car. Not a car that’s about to fall apart and break down at any given moment but maybe an old, ugly car that runs goods. It’s a confidence thing. She doesn’t need a Benz or a BMW to feel good about herself because she can trick the hell out of an ugly car without complaint! It says she’s grounded, down-to-earth and recognizes the value, or lack there of, of material possessions. A beautiful woman in an ugly car is a guy’s girl and is probably one of the coolest girls you’ll ever meet. – Tre, 32

A natural woman is one after my heart. I like a woman who is comfortable being herself without caked on make-up, fake hair and nails. I love a woman who doesn’t have to make a production out of going to the grocery store or Blockbuster with her weave rituals. I like a chick who can throw her hair up in a ponytail and leave the house with no make-up and still look good. A natural woman, to me, is okay with being herself and I don’t have to peel through the layers, literally, to get to the crust of her. – Jonathan, 30

A woman that loves sports is my soul mate! I like for a woman to know sports and  sit and watch a game with me. I like a woman who knows pro and collegiate teams and has an opinion about who’s going to make the play-offs. I like a woman who will eat wings, drink beer and watch the game. Make a spread of cheese dip, crackers, and hor’dourves for the Super Bowl, you know? I would love a woman like that. I would never get tired of her. – Brandon, 27

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