Of course when it comes to haters, some are just jealous and unhappy people wanting to hate on anyone, howeverrr I have been coming across some people lately that are in denial of their annoyance level thinking the “haters” are the problem. I am a firm believer in people “hating” on others they don’t understand, but these people telling “haters” off need to stop and think, why are people hating?

Are people hating you for no reason? Jealous of your hard work and success? Or are you just flat out obnoxious? Cause there IS a difference.

# 1 Reason MOST people hate?

If you are conceited and shouldn’t be….

a. Rich guys who are creepy and cocky and think they can buy you. Reality check, you being full of yourself and your money… it’s gross. You bragging about your boats, how many ladies you kick it with, your houses all over, bla bla bla. You posting lame videos about what a great man you are with your shirt off? Bragging about your Playboy lifestyle? People are hating because that cockiness is not attractive. People are laughing at you because you look stupid! Turn your web cam off and stop sending me emails about how rich you are. I rather date a modest bum.

b. Girls that publicly say “Girls just want to be me and are jealous” Ya no, actually I don’t. Your constant facebook updates about how cool, hot, sexy, fab, glam you are, and F* the haters etc… they’re annoying. Nothing more, nothing less. Perfect example: Tila Tequila.

Sure she has 344,234,343 followers, but lets take a closer look at these “followers”. Most are insecure 14 year olds who worship you for pathetic reasons, and many of these girls addressing their “haters” are talentless bimbos selling out. Do something worth hating. Earn a dollar the real way, work your way to the top in other ways besides being a sex symbol, then maybe I’ll be jealous. Last I checked, any girl can go on a reality show, buy boobs, or chat online in a bra. If all your followers are perverted men, here is a hint, you probably are just sleazy and no one is jealous. You just make girls look easy and dumb and that’s why you have haters.

Bottom line, regardless of who you are, cockiness is a turn off. You being soooo sure of yourself isn’t attractive so be prepared for haters. Confidence is a must, cockiness isn’t.

“It is easy for a somebody to be modest, but it is difficult to be modest when one is a nobody”

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