I love this guy, he’s so in yo face with his advice, but that is the way I like it. Straight up. I know tons of single girls and I always think its weird when I see how desperate they are for a man. You know, that girl who has a new “love” every week. It is like every guy she meets she swearsssss is “the one”. Give her a week and she’s over him, aka he stopped calling her needy ass. Anyway, this guy gives great advice on “availability” I thought I would share it with my female readers, because it definitely is good info coming from a man. He made a list of 10 things all women must do when it comes to dating. Sure every situation is different, however most follow the same paths.

Rule  #6 RE: Availability

“Never be too available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.  Don’t be so damn eager all the time.  Men like to be on the chase for a minute. We like it when ya’ll act funny.  There is no fun in a game that can be beat easily.  If he stops pursuing you, then he really isn’t worth pursuing.  Now if the case is you’re scheduling dates and standing him up or just plain bullshittin’ on your end then its your bad and not his.”

I couldn’t agree more. Too many girls are too desperate and eager for love, calm down, keep your cool, go ride your bike, run some errands, put your phone down. I have never been one to stare at my phone waiting for a guy to call, like he said above, if he’s not calling, he’s not worth worrying about. Don’t give things up so easy and he’ll come back for more.

Click  the pic for the complete top 10 list, it’s hilarious and so true! Beware he’s not afraid to talk nastttt-ay.

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