Ok, I get it… men lie to avoid girls freaking out on them, but hey, why are you doing things we’d freak out over? I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t freak out on you for making me dinner and being nice 
One of my favorite things ever though, is when guys call their girlfriends crazy when the girls simply call them out on their shadiness. I have a girlfriend who has a LIVE in boyfriend… she found out that he went to a bar with another girl all while she was at work. To me that is cheating. The fact that he even wanted to be at a bar with another girl, pretending to be single is awful. Can you imagine what HE would do if the situation were flipped, he’d leave her instantly! Why creep around, I don’t get it. If you don’t want a psycho gf then A. Stop being an idiot and stop creating drama, or B. Break up with her and be an idiot alone. Don’t call her the psycho though!
Her boyfriend never mentioned hanging out with another female. In fact even when she found out through the grape vine, he still lied! Listen guys, I know ever since Shaggy came out with “It wasn’t me” you guys think the more you lie the more we believe you, but that’s NOT the case! Eventually we just get sick of you denying it over and over and over, and just fake forgive you to end the exhausting investigation, but deep down we 100% know you are lying. It is so weird how guys still lie even if you catch them red handed. “I sawwww you and her together” No you didn’t, that wasn’t me. Ohhhh really oh ok. 
I can’t wait until they break up and he realizes he was the biggest fool ever thinking the grass is greener. Guys have a funny way of convincing themselves that they can do better, truth is, any girlfriend worth having is gonna call you out when you act like a player. Date a mute bimbo if you wanna play games.
So why do so many guys stay, yet mess around? If you have to lie to your girlfriend about where you were last night (even if you didn’t physically cheat) you are shady. If you can even picture yourself being with someone else, you’re shady. If you send other girls pictures of yourself, or ask for pictures, you’re shady. If you give your number out, tell girls your single, etc etc etc you’re shady and don’t deserve anyone.
Do the world a favor and end the relationship. And girls!??? Stop being just as dumb! Once a liar always a liar. If he lies about small irrelevant stuff, who even knows what is really going on! Don’t let him trick you into thinking you’re the crazy one and don’t let him talk his way out of it!
But seriously, we aren’t getting younger, you are too cool to deal with a liar. Whoever you are Guys and girls both.
WWPD? Pink would leave his ass
5 Comments
Comment by ryan — August 7, 2009 @ 8:09 am
Ha.. I never really understood why anyone cheats to begin with. If you don’t want to be with someone, break up. It’s not like you’re married and stand to lose your house over the relationship ending. And I’ve always said this… if you’re cheating before you get married, you’re damn sure going to cheat when you’ve been married for 10 years.
But on the flip side, the girl should feel lucky in a way to get rid of this loser now and instead of years down the line when they might have had a family and all that. That’s how I like to look at things when they happen to me.
Comment by Daniel — August 7, 2009 @ 10:36 am
People cheat because they want their cake and to eat it too. They want the solid gf they know will be there. The one who will go have dinner with their parents with them. The one who will make you soup, and take care of your dog while you lay sick in bed. The one who will fuck them on a regular basis. But they ALSO have an insecurity somewhere inside them that still wants to feel attractive and wanted, and relevant to the opposite sex. When you really break it down to the subconscious level lots of people cheat to feed their own egos. Its pretty pathetic when you actually think about it.
I understand wanting to have other female interaction outside a relationship. I dont think that is wrong. And i think having female friends is healthy. But if you are fronting like you are single, or you have intentions of anything else with a girl that is beyond platonic, or harmless flirting, then yeah, i think you are shady as shit, and might as well just end the relationship.
I have no idea why people lack integrity, or the ability to be honest. Why people cant just be good to each other, is beyond me. And how people can hurt someone they care about so much, and complete disregard their feelings, to focus on their own selfish and ego-maniacal “needs” is obscene.
good post.
Comment by amandajo — August 7, 2009 @ 1:03 pm
i dont know how i feel about guys and girls being friends anymore. ive seen what happens between friends of the opposite sex during fights with their bf or gf and its not good. unless people are legitimately friends and not a “hot friend he flirts with” aka first girl hell call when we break up, then ya its ok. but like i said if hes flirting with a “friend” and hanging out with her too much its just weird.
Comment by ryan — August 7, 2009 @ 4:06 pm
Its always been really hard for me to just have girl “friends” because they always seem to have motives and start mess with my current relationships. Plus, it’s never easy having that other person in your ear the whole time telling you to breakup and end it simply because they are jealous. I just try my hardest to stay away.
Comment by Melissa — August 11, 2009 @ 2:35 pm
Okay sooo random fact from Cosmo: They saw when people lie the always reference the number 3. like I only had 3 drinks, or I came home at 3am.
RSS feed for comments on this post. TrackBack URL
Leave a comment
RSS