How do you know when you realllly care about someone? You get mad. I was talking to my friend Matt about how him and his girlfriend argue so much that it’s making him want to break up.  I told him he was lucky to have someone in his life that actually got under his skin and called him out on his BS. To me a little fighting is much better than no fighting because if something is that easy something huge is missing.

Most people I talk to can’t make me mad. Why? Because I don’t care. I personally would never date someone that never challenged me and that never got upset with something I did. At least I know the passion and emotion exists.

I’ve been in relationships before where there was tons of fighting. In my head? …In my head, I was thinking hey I want to mention things that bother me, hoping he wants to fix it and move on. I’ve also dated plenty of guys who do everything wrong, yet I stay silent why? Because I don’t really care if it ever gets fixed.

The line between dating and hating is weird. Every serious dating/married couple I know fights. Whether it is a little fight or a huge ignore each other for 2 days fight, realistically it happens. Most couples are in a bubble together, a bubble where someones got to be right in every fight. Who that is, is constantly up for debate of course.

I’ve hated a few guys but I guess it is simply because I cared. Next time you’re fighting with someone, realize it’s probably because you both care a lotttt. Try to understand where the other person is coming from, fix it and move on. But of course, sometimes one person kind of refuses to grow up and change so the fights get to be too much… in that case, maybe you don’t fix it and instead just move on

Why do you think couples fight so much? Where do you draw the line?

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